Tuesday, April 10, 2012

A Day to Recover

Today has been a low-key quiet day of recovery. Vivian isn't feeling particularly awesome, but we weren't expecting anything significant in the first 2-3 days after the procedures. Our best indications of how well everything is working is when she regains a healthy appetite and the jaundice decreases. Her oncologist came by the house today to check up on the patient and discuss where we go from here. The big question we have right now is if she should try chemo again. The blockage in the liver (caused by the tumors) caused a lot of pressure and considerable pain. That's the whole reason we moved away from any direct treatment of the disease and leaned into palliative care. If we've taken care of the blockages and she starts feeling better then it may be possible to try to treat the disease. Will going on chemo again provide a better quality of life? I guess we wait to see how much better she's feeling in the near term and discuss the possibilities and probabilities. Her oncologist will be checking in next week as well to see how Viv is doing. On a different note, thanks to everyone who has been checking up on Vivian and the family and offering your help and support. She's not used to so many people dropping what they're doing to help her - she's often the person doing that. She is, however, handling it with heaps of gratitude.

8 comments:

  1. Tell Vivian we are thinking of her and look forward to hearing that she is feeling better. Love to all...

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  2. Your mom is loved so very much...

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  3. Cindy and I are hoping you start to have some relief Vivian! We are thinking of you and send prayers and love everyday from our little corner at Lincoln.

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  4. We have been thinking about Vivian and we send our love!

    Our very best,

    Jim & Lauri Berry

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  5. Thanks so much for the updates, Paul. We are so far away and not being there in town leaves us with only you for information that make prayers relevant. This blog is so nice and leaves the phone alone from scads of us calling to learn more and trying to say what we cannot put all into words. Thank you. Our love to Vivian and Serge, Gary and Pat

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  6. Prayers and love flowing over all of you....
    Thank you for this site. We can be with all of you through your words and thoughts.
    Vivian, rest comfortably and let people filled with love for you 'fuss' over you. ....I'm there, from Harbor Springs.
    Gretchen

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  7. Glad to hear the surgeries went well. All my love to viv and the family. My thoughts are with you.
    Love, Amanda

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  8. So many people throughout our schools are thinking and praying for you all! Vivian has such a wonderful energy and sense of humor! Hearing that she is keeping a positive attitude is really inspiring. Thanks for keeping us up to date!

    Natalie Rank

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